Will Power Training: Crafting the 'Human Weapon'

The goals of a martial enterprise influence its training methods.  In studios which place a premium on will power, training is likely to revolve around pushing limits and increasing one's force of will.

In this way, will power training treats martial techniques like weapons.  Punches, kicks, grabs, locks, and throws are treated in the same manner as gunshots.  In fact, training in this setting can feel like visiting a gun range to throw some lead.  The trainee is primarily concerned about power, speed, and accuracy, but may overlook application, precision, and discretion.

Still, will power training makes good sense for soldiers, police officers, and others who will use their bodies as weapons.  The capacity to weather austerity and remain motivated has great application to the martial way.

Due to the necessarily physical stresses encountered in the course of will power development, the trainee's body will develop muscle, tendon, and bone durability to greater degrees than in softer arts.  Weightlifting and calisthenics, which are merely supplementary in the soft arts, become obligatory to sustain progress and prevent injury during will power training.

Conceptually, the weaponry metaphor is complicated by the necessity of building the weapons of students (power of techniques) concurrently with learning when to use them (tactics).  While an artist well trained in awareness and technique would criticize such a method as useless when the student does not know under what conditions to use techniques, the will power martial artist would counter that a student needs powerful enough weapons to make tactics relevant.  Weak blows delivered halfheartedly with perfect technique and flawless tactics are still weak, unmotivated blows.  This dilemma was present in the Pacific Campaign of WWII where Japanese with superior tactics and martial spirit were outgunned by sheer American firepower, however begrudgingly.

Misplaced Assumptions: Sex, Brinksmanship, and the Male Martial Artist

 The Root of Female Violence

Too often, those involved in self defense do not completely consider their philosophical reasons for engaging in martial training in the first place.  For example, I have seen a martial arts instructor advocate training to use a knife stab to the neck to address a grab from behind.  The disparity of force represented here is enormous.  It is this author's belief that the instructor was only allowed to advocate such a measure unchallenged because she is a woman.  The reason she was not questioned is because most martial artists in this culture do not consider the reality of women's violence or their capacity to wield it.  Even worse, most male martial artists do not consider the passive, more sexual ways women hurt men every day in this culture, nor do they plan to defend against those tactics.  Therefore, it remains typical for women in western culture to advocate for exaggerated acts of incomprehensible violence in response to minor altercations (#killallmen is one example) and to use sexuality as an indirect form of violence (google Brigadier General Sinclair, an exemplary soldier, stripped of rank, humiliated, and disgraced by a single vindictive sex partner who demonstrably lied in court).  Such behavior is now NORMAL to western women.

The majority of women do not believe they need martial training, nor do they typically need to physically protect themselves.  That's because most violence is not used against, nor by, women.  Criminal statistics bear this out too often to reiterate here.  The primal power of women lies in sexuality, not physical aggression.  With civilization stripped away, women survive through their sexuality, not their muscles.  Countless conflicts throughout history demonstrate how powerful victors in war are rewarded by the women of the conquered men, often with the tacit acceptance of those women.  Contemporary culture, as it decivilizes, has shown how women reward thugs and other violent men.

With respect to sexuality as a tool of violence, this author does not refer to broken hearts, cheating, and other forms of emotional wreckage.  This author refers to literal VIOLENCE that is perpetrated through women's sexuality.  Examples include women who encourage vengeance killings (among the poor), use the police state as a weapon against men they wish to victimize (among the middle class), advocate legislation which harms others (among the elite), and use lies and distortions to put a social bulls-eye on people they wish to harm (among all women).  This author is continually shocked by those male martial artists who do not explicitly acknowledge or prepare for the violence of women, or speak out against it when it occurs.  Considering what's at stake, men should learn to better resist passive female aggression.

When people picture a predatory criminal singling out a man for extortion of his money, most people mistakenly picture a male criminal, hunched over, with a weapon, who intends to commit violence unless that money is forcibly transferred.  But what of the female predator who uses her vagina to accomplish the exact same outcome?  A woman who will likely receive social, even political support for her robbery?  This woman is every bit as dangerous and far more common than the male mugger.  So how should a man protect himself from this enemy?

Fundamental Tactics to Resist Female Seduction/Aggression

Brinksmanship

Much like martial training teaches a man to absorb, redirect, and oppose increasing levels of physical force by an assailant, Venusian arts training, otherwise known as 'Game,' can help men absorb, redirect, and oppose increasing levels of seductive force by women.  Though most game theorists use game for its practical outcome of scoring pussy, men can also learn to protect themselves from sexual predation through seduction resistance.  The single most powerful training tool for male self defense against women is sexual brinksmanship.

Just as one can learn to effectively resist a man who uses violence to influence one's decisions, one can learn to effectively resist a woman who uses sexuality to influence one's decisions.  Luckily, men in this culture have one of the most effective training tools imaginable: pornography.  What is pornography but a collection of the sexiest possible women engaging in the sexiest possible behaviors to manipulate men into giving them money?  By training to resist the seduction of women who are 10's, a man can theoretically resist the seductive advances of any woman he meets.

The method is simple.

1.  Limit yourself to one orgasm per day.  When you have this orgasm, it can be accomplished through fantasy or sex only.  No pornographic pictures or videos allowed.  The rest of the day, when tempted by pornography, watch freely, but spend no money, and do not orgasm.  Masturbate to the point of 'throbbing' 4 times, then stop watching.  Go do something productive.  Repeat this process as necessary, then manually orgasm only 1 time or have sex before bed, without visual aid.

2.  Visualize denying porn actresses your sperm.  You are regaining control of your sperm back from women.  When this becomes easy, visualize denying the women around you your sperm unless they have earned it.  This will increase your confidence and reinforce a healthier attitude toward sex that values your fundamental worth as a person.  You will begin to have better standards for female behavior, make better choices in relationships, and set firmer boundaries.  You will also become more selective and demanding in the bedroom, an attribute psychologically healthy women will appreciate.

3.  For best results in brinksmanship, use a time when your work for the day is done, or as a brief break.

4.  At first, use a highly sexually charged, flirtacious softcore type of pornography which closely simulates natural female seduction.  Videos of twerking, dirty talk, bodily display, and other suggestive videos are best.  Masturbating to videos of penetrative sex are actually counterproductive as they encourage a man to take the subconscious role of cuckold.  Eventually, you will be able to practice without visual aids using fantasy alone.  At this point, you will reach a state of 'masculine presence' where attractive women stimulate you, but do not modify your behavior.  If you feel inclined to ask whether you're there yet, you aren't.

At this point in your development, women you know will begin to separate into two categories: 1. Good women who sense your control, respect you, and want to earn your sperm by winning your favor, and 2. Evil women who feel entitled to your lust and will attack you for your autonomy.  By increasing your sexual power in this way, you will simultaneously draw in good women and enrage evil women.  Use brinksmanship to further steel yourself against manipulation by both.  Both types of women will attempt to overcome your resistance in two different ways.  A good woman will attempt to win your sperm and your exclusivity while an evil woman will attempt to manipulate you into giving favors and masturbatory tributes whilst simultaneously rejecting your advances and denying you access to any better women.  Both types of women want your exclusive attention, but only one type will pleasure you on command and follow your lead.

Other benefits of brinksmanship include: a more satisfying and autonomous sex life, greater comfort while interacting with attractive women, a more balanced appreciation for attractive women without the predatory feelings which accompany unrestrained lust, greater feelings of bliss and peace due to a calm stream of endorphins which do not crash in the calamitous wave of orgasm, greater amounts of sperm per orgasm, harder erections, and less symptoms of erectile dysfunction in healthy men.

Distance, Preemptive Recording, and Legal Representation

When you suspect a woman has singled you out or might single you out as a social target for violence, you must react quickly using three tactics: distance, preemptive recording, and legal representation.  Your financial security will influence which tactics are available to you.

If you suspect lower class violence of the vigilante sort due to false claims of rape, violated honor, etc., make any sort of distance you can from that woman.  Do not answer calls, do not stay in the same city, get away.  Your brinksmanship training will make this easier.  Your life is in possible danger and you must react accordingly.  A man does not ever fight a single woman.  He fights both her and the mob of men who will do violence for her approval.  No one ever asks the lynching victim for their side of the story.  Simply get away.  Time may disperse the mob, but they will always remember you as a social target for violence.  Count your losses and leave town if you are singled out for mob violence.

If you suspect the more middle class, civilized variant of this mobbing, begin recording every interaction you have with this woman.  Continue to avoid calls and interactions, but also be ready to record any attempt she makes to reinitiate contact.  She will try to contact you as a means of creating conflict so she can make you seem hostile to others.  Remain calm and record everything.  This will help you later when she inevitably calls the police to take you away.  Do not speak to the police or the woman, though you can show the police recordings as long as they do not seem likely to destroy or confiscate them.  Just record everything and save it all for the courtroom.

If you suspect character assassination as a successful man, you must, whenever possible, enlist the services of an attorney.  Be ready at all times to preemptively sue women who seem likely to attack your character.  Make distance, record everything, and additionally hire legal counsel to financially attack predatory women who wish to harm you.  At the elite level, everyone will be recording YOU as well.  Make sure you enjoy your vices over secure internet connections, be discrete in your sex life, and keep your dirty laundry locked away from everyone (even friends and family).  If necessary, hire a therapist to vent your secrets.

Wrapping Up

No one, man or woman, has the right to initiate violence on another.  In equal measure, everyone has the right to self defense.  Hopefully, these methods will help round out the martial philosophy of those who anticipate conflict with women.

On the Fundamental Stupidity of Gun Control

One who lives the martial way develops a comprehensive understanding for violence lacking in the majority of the population.  Training to use one's own body in a lethal capacity and resist the lethal intentions of others tends to destroy many illusions about pain, victimhood, fairness, and danger.  A true warrior cannot relate to naive conceptions of violence and has a predisposition to offending and frightening those who lack similar experiences.

Gun control is one topic which perfectly illustrates the disconnect between warriors and typical sheep.  A warrior realizes that human beings have always killed one another through a variety of different means, all of them more or less effective.  They realize that guns are simply a more effective extension of one's intent, whether that intent is good or evil.  Therefore, the warrior who seeks an end to gun violence seeks to destroy evil intent, not merely remove the means of expressing that intent.  Cowardly sheep seek merely to attack the opportunities for evil people to harm them, as though taking the gun away from someone who intends to kill is the only necessary step to prevent that person from killing someone.

This issue relates to form versus function.  Sheep focus only upon the form of violence: how it looks.  They see a gun, feel fear, and band together to abolish guns forever so they feel safe... until knife attacks become a new object of fear.  A warrior focuses on the function of violence.  They understand that preventing access to weaponry without destroying evil intent will continue to result in killing.  Below are problems in the logic of gun control:

1.  Shooting people is already illegal.  Those who currently own and carry guns legally cannot legally shoot anyone and get away with it.  Those who go around shooting people to death virtually always get killed themselves or locked up, and those who intend to kill others do not bother to go through the process of legally obtaining their firearms in order to commit criminal acts.

2.  Gun control is impossible.  Because criminals often obtain firearms through illegal means, only law abiding citizens will be disarmed by gun control, often to the great benefit of professional predators.  Gun control will not reduce gun violence.  It will decrease the options of law abiding citizens who must defend against it.

3. Gun control is a slippery slope with no end.  Let's assume that gun control actually keeps criminals from obtaining guns.  Great.  But people keep getting stabbed.  Let's also make knives illegal.  Cool.  But wait, we forgot about bows and arrows, spears, heavy flashlights, farming implements, blackjacks, construction tools, rocks, and sticks.  Might as well make all hand held objects illegal.  But then evil people will continue to beat, choke, gouge, and rip one another to death due to their evil intent which never got addressed in the first place.

4.  Firearms are not nearly as deadly as believed.  80% of handgun shooting victims survive.  Concealable guns are not always the most efficient method to kill someone.  One of the fastest mass killings in history took place between the Hutus and Tutsis and machetes were the primary tool of choice, not guns.  Despite this lack of equipment, the Sudanese genocide killed people at a faster rate than the Jewish Holocaust.  A hunting arrowhead fired from a modest bow can instantly impale and disembowel a struck victim with one shot and no plans are in place to take them off the market.  Other examples of deadly items left out of the gun debate abound.

5. Evil intent does not require a weapon to harm and kill.  Before guns, serial murderers used different tools.  A school full of children can be barricaded shut and burned down far more easily than individually shooting everyone inside.  Serial stranglings and stabbings used to terrorize sheep in the days before concealable guns.

Hopefully, this list can shed light on the absurdity of gun control legislation which will neither prevent criminal access to guns, nor reduce the evil intent of murderers.

A Note on The Martial Way and Asperger's/Autism Spectrum Disorder

This post assumes that the martial way is distinct from the martial arts.  The martial way is the means by which one selects the manner and circumstances of their own death.  The martial arts can be seen as the explicit means of accomplishing this goal.  There are times where the martial arts actually detract from a person's adherence to the martial way by rendering them more likely to engage in conflict, or removing their inhibitions for violence.  Those individuals exhibiting ASD and other antisocial tendencies are particularly likely to fit this description.

For the uninitiated, ASD is a behavioral and social disorder characterized by social insensitivity or oversensitivity, insufficient empathy, and abnormal repetitive behaviors and fixations.  Much like bipolar disorder and other psychological disorders marked by antisocial tendencies, high functioning ASD sufferers will sometimes self aggrandize their disability rather than accepting its limitations and working to correct them.  With respect to the martial arts, this particular tendency can result in destructive behavior patterns and confrontational attitudes toward violence/conflict which guarantee a life characterized by conflict and frustration.

In some ways, ASD drives many sufferers to the martial arts as a means of restoring a psychological sense of safety.  ASD sufferers are almost guaranteed to be bullied at some point in their lives, often to the point of painful trauma.  This author understands this reality  and does not lack empathy for those afflicted.  However, this blog holds the position that rather than helping ASD sufferers prevent future bullying, martial arts training can result in more violent responses to future bullying that could be prevented in other, nonviolent ways.

In order for a typically developed person to succeed in martial arts training, they require certain basic skills.  These include empathy, physical coordination, and the ability to accept sometimes contradictory and vague instructions.  All of these basic capacities are lacking to some extent in ASD individuals.  As such, it is not only useless, but dangerous for a person with these deficits to train in a martial arts setting.

Below, this post debunks some popular arguments for the inclusion of ASD individuals in the martial arts.

The Martial Arts Teach Teamwork, Communication, and Cooperation

This very well may be true, depending on the school, however, the students at a dojo do not pay monthly tuition to offer unpaid social sensitivity training to the disabled.  They pay to learn the martial arts.  A sensei may or may not choose to keep such a student, as the martial arts are not appropriate for everyone.  ASD individuals often respond poorly to instruction, slow down class progress, and can even be dangerous during the training of certain techniques which require students to 'tap out' or risk irreversible bodily injury.  This author has personally witnessed an ASD student hyperextend the elbows of several students before finally understanding that 'tapping out' means to stop cranking another person's elbow!  This is not an appropriate or ethical way to learn social cues!  An ASD sufferer should find other, safer outlets for learning social sensitivity than a potentially injurious, deadly art.

The Martial Arts Can Teach ASD Sufferers Confidence to Overcome Bullying

Firstly, most ASD sufferers do not lack confidence and in fact have a tendency to disdain normal people.  Self esteem is hardly an issue for the typical ASD sufferer and they have little need for more.  Secondly, by teaching a person who already lacks social skills to solve normal social problems with violence, a martial arts school has just taken a technical sociopath and taught them how to best hurt people instead of teaching proper deescalation skills.  Most martial arts schools assume that its students already know how to normally interact, and teach for worst case scenarios.  An ASD sufferer may risk using the last resort techniques of normal people as typical responses to teasing, exclusion, and frustration, thus increasing their likelihood of conflict with others and reducing their control over the manner of their own death.

The Martial Arts Can Keep ASD Sufferers Active and Physically Healthy

Again, this very well may be true, but why not encourage less dangerous forms of physical exercise?  Running, swimming, weight lifting, and yoga replicate or exceed the health benefits of a martial arts class with none of the already described disadvantages. 

So, What Should an ASD Sufferer Do Instead?!?

Before an ASD sufferer is ready to train in the martial arts, they must first master control of their anger and fear, gradually practice social engagement, seek to understand social cues by trial and error, criticize their own faults before those of others, and improve their physical fitness.  All of these necessary skills can be mastered without ever setting foot in a dojo and will greatly improve one's quality of life.  If an ASD individual feels threatened and wishes to defend themselves, they should seek to avoid all contact with those who mean them harm.  If conflict is inevitable, pepper spray is a cheap, nondeadly solution to most physical altercations and requires little skill to implement.

The author understands that this post will upset many individuals who fit the ASD or antisocial profile, but urges those affected to consider their own preparedness for a martial arts setting.  Work on becoming a less dangerous person before attempting to learn a skill which could unnecessarily injure and kill.  ASD sufferers have no business training the martial arts or weapon handling until they have honestly improved their social skills and tendencies to act out aggressively, and teachers have no business offering dangerous techniques to those have not demonstrated proper deescalation skills.

Creating a Minimalist Home Gym

The Russian culture has practically distilled the core elements of strong physical manhood.  Though the country covers 11.5% of the globe, it has endured centuries of freezing cold, famine, warfare, revolution, and cultural isolation.  Russians of all ethnicities have learned to survive and thrive in the face of overwhelming odds.  It is no surprise then that this culture created Kettlebell Sport, the martial art of weight lifting.  This post will detail how basic competence in kettlebell lifting can serve as a platform for a complete home gym which can deliver a lifetime of lifting gains with minimal space and cost. 

The following equipment, when purchased, can meet almost all physical conditioning goals: a complete set of kettlebells (16, 24, and 32 kg.), two 10 pound ankle weights, 2 automobile straps for securing items, two sturdy chairs with low backs, a door pullup bar or free standing pullup bar, a smooth wall, a 10 foot by 10 foot section of floor.

Examples of Heavy Weight Hypertrophy Development

The biggest complaint of this equipment set is the allegedly limited loading capacity of the kettlebell set and ankle weights.  However, the complainant lacks imagination in this instance.  By strapping kettlebells together using the car straps, and using the straps to hang multiple kettlebells around one's waist, around 80 kilograms or 176 pounds can be strapped to the body to increase resistance for pullups on a pullup bar and dips between chairs.  For those who fear damaging door frames with large pullup weights, training the assisted one armed variety can accomplish the same results as adding weight without adding any weight to the door frame.  The 176 pounds can also be cleaned and front squatted for repetitions by strapping the weights together and cleaning them to one's chest.  Changing the uneven load from side to side between sets can prevent strength imbalances.  This load is more than sufficient for almost any strength athlete, as anyone who can pullup, dip, and front squat with 176 extra pounds for repetitions is functionally strong enough for any life task.  This same 176 pounds can be tied together to form one large handheld weight to use for one arm presses and jerks.  A person who can overhead press or even jerk 176 pounds with one arm must be exceedingly strong throughout their entire body.  The smooth wall can be used as an aid for handstand work just as the floor can be used for pushups, planks, and bridges of all varieties.

Examples of Conditioning

By practicing traditional kettlebell sport and running, an athlete may reach very close to their maximum potential for endurance.  Cutting training weight and increasing repetitions of full body movements like the snatch and clean and jerk are the only requirements necessary.  It is even possible to switch weight lifting from endurance to strength in cycles.  For example, one week could include weighted dips, pullups, and front squats along with one arm overhead presses.  The next week could include only the kettlebell snatch or clean and jerk for maximum repetitions alongside bodyweight exercises.

In total, the exercises described in this post constitute a completely scalable training regime for an entire lifetime and cost approximately $700, one time.  Compare this to the average yearly cost of gym membership: $660.  When compared to the large amount of money which funnels into yearly gym memberships and contracts, buying the equipment outlined above is a far cheaper investment for long term physical fitness.

Hopefully this post provides some examples of how a person can stay frugal and develop world class strength and conditioning at the same time in the convenience of home.

Thoughts on Home Defense

A home in the martial sense is wherever one's guard is most relaxed.  Even the most adept warrior must sleep, and developing a safe space for such activity constitutes a basic survival skill.

The first consideration of home defense is location.  Only the ignorant begin a discussion of home defense with a weapon system, as this is a last resort.  The first consideration for home defense is an acceptable location.

A safe neighborhood is one that is well observed by neighbors with minimal turnover and a geographically isolated location.  A criminal should have a hard time finding, entering, and escaping the neighborhood relative to other neighborhoods.  A single entry road is ideal for creating a choke point for would be criminals by law enforcement or vigilantes.  Neighbors who have lived there longer tend to pay greater attention to suspicious situations and are more likely to be vigilant in reporting infractions and strange individuals.

Next, one should examine the relative location of the house or apartment.  Ideally, a home should be within close proximity of trustworthy neighbors.  If that cannot be accomplished, the home should be in an inconspicuous location tucked away from main access routes. 

For the home itself, points of entry become the next consideration.  All doors to the outside must contain a deadbolt at minimum to prevent silent lock picking. A peephole, chain, or small window is another necessity to discretely provide information on visitors.  A gate over the door can provide additional security.  Dog doors should not be used.  All windows must have secure, strong latches and sticks in their sills to prevent opening in the case of broken or forgotten latches.  Upstairs windows should be difficult to access without specialized equipment and balconies should be too high to jump and grab.  Ideally, upstairs windows should not have overhangs or extensive sills.  All windows should have steel shutters, if possible.  Screen doors should either open to an inaccessible balcony, or connect to the main living area of the home.  Screen doors to bedrooms pose an extra security risk.  Ventilation ducts, attics, and basements should not have direct entrances from the outside. 

Now that the points of contact with the home are covered, a home owner must establish a continuum of escalation during a break in.  Sleeping should ideally be done in a room that is accessible only through a lockable door and an inaccessible window, preferably on the second story.  Sleeping in a windowless room is even more ideal, though it may conflict with some preferences.  The main living area should constitute a safety buffer between the outside world and the bedroom, such that a break in will enter the main area and be detected before contacting the bedroom.  In a rich home, a panic room, or windowless, hidden, and reinforced room adjacent to the bedroom can be used to protect occupants before a breach of the bedroom is possible as well as providing a safe place to phone authorities.  If a panic room or tactical retreat is impossible, a homeowner must phone authorities and/or fight.

This is where a discussion of home defense weapons and combat becomes relevant: as a final line of defense when all other lines have been fully exhausted.  Use of a gun provides the advantage of range, speed, and ease of use, but other methods are possible.  When no gun is available, the defender should find an ambush point and wait with a heavy blunt object and knife.  This author recommends a large maglight and a tanto point.  Those skilled in gun disarms may find the knife alone is sufficient.  The first priority is getting out of the line of fire of a potential attacker, the second is to control the weapon's aim, and the third is to neutralize the attacker.  Striking the attacker with the maglight, grabbing control of the gun, and repeatedly stabbing the attacker in the neck is one example of these principles in effect.

Now that all possible levels of home defense have been considered, the reader should note the various kinds of criminals who will be deterred at various levels.  They consist of three types: opportunistic criminals, committed criminals, and selective criminals.

Opportunists seek easy entry and exit from homes, minimal resistance, and easy access to valuables.  These criminals may be deterred through simple neighborhood selection, attention to locks, and inaccessibility of windows.  These are the least selective criminals, as anyone's valuables will satisfy them.  These are the most common criminals who require the least amount of will power and they exist on a continuum from thieves to serial murderers. 

Committed criminals have chosen a specific home, but are indifferent to the occupants.  They will generally study a house for weaknesses and design a tactical approach to home invasion.  Such criminals usually remain committed despite disadvantages because of the high value of their targets.  These criminals will usually be deterred by a well locked bedroom, but some may require a panic room to avoid contact.

Finally, selective criminals are the most terrifying type, as they have chosen a specific occupant or set of occupants as their targets.  These criminals will not be deterred easily by mere difficulty of entry.  They will need to be removed by authorities or neutralized.  Such criminals tend to seek vengeance, information, hostages, or sadistic pleasure.

This author encourages the reader to meditate on their preparations for home defense, the sorts of criminals that are likely, and the layers of protection their home currently affords.  All self defense is a matter of probability and it is possible to reduce one's probability of victimization to nearly zero with appropriate preparations.

Contrast is Sexy

Virtually every human being alive in every culture entertains a variety of sexual fantasies and desires, yet almost no discussion has shed light on why certain things are sexy.  This blog offers a theory which might explain the motivations of those who seek to control society.  The sexiest situations are characterized by stark contrast.  Large, muscular men dominating petite waifish girls generally constitutes the most common preference across cultures.  However, this contrast stands opposed by an unnatural contrast: the domination of large, muscular men by petite waifish girls.  This new contrast characterizes so called progressive cultures and explains their every idiosyncrasy.

In response to this amped culture of female supremacy, two exaggerated responses are possible for men.  They can either double down on dominance or completely submit.  There are no other options left or they lose male identity in the broader culture.  For those men who double down, fetishes involve contrasts which contrast female purity and corruption.  Spilling the pure seed of life in a sweet girl's dirty shithole.  Tying up a warm trusting girl with cold chains in order to betray her.  Punishing a girl who is innocent, kind, and gentle.  For those men who submit totally, fetishes involve contrasts of male superiority and weakness.  A business executive being pegged by a young intern.  A financially enslaved cuckold powerlessly watching as his wife is bred by a better endowed man.  A small man being abused by a large woman.

The intensity of such contrasts have a social cost.  A functional society encourages limited contrast in sexual desires such that men do not need to be brutes and women do not need to be wimps nor the inverse.  Healthy societies thereby encourage unity, harmony, organization, and happiness.  Societies ready to die generally exhibit a more pronounced contrast in sexual fantasies and are characterized by division, aggression, chaos, and misery.

The contrasts which get a person off generally inform the totality of their personal and political views.  Men who are dominant generally support right wing positions to shackle women while women who are dominant generally support left wing attempts to shackle men.  The alternative to these prurient psychosexual conflicts is to disassociate one's sexuality from one's politics and way of life.  Shackle only those who harm others. This is the only way of peace.